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The Role of Women
Bev Weddle writes in response to an article of mine appearing
on the internet:
I read your comments about the role of women.
I’ve been reading the same thing for years and you have a right to your
interpretation of the scripture. I would like for you to understand
though that your words are wrong in my case when you say those that have
a problem with women’s submission have “diminished respect for the authority
of God and his holy word.” I have the highest regard for God and
his Word and believe it and will live by it. But, I believe in the
mutual submission of all people men and women alike. Christ is the
head of my home and has the last word in all that is done. I lived
under the heavy hand of male oppression for years and have found freedom
in Christ. I’m not using it as license to do as I please but I’m
am no longer willing to be under the bondage the church and it’s leaders
have tried to put on me for years. There are some like me out here
who do have the highest regard for God and his word yet do disagree with
you. Chaplain Bev Weddle
First, I respectfully submit that the reason that
you have heard for years about the submission of women in the home and
in religion is because Scripture teaches that doctrine. In recent
years, largely due to societal changes, contemporary modifications have
affected the divinely given roles for men and women. Scripture, however,
has not changed nor has there been any new revelation for nearly 2,000
years. As far as God and the children of God are concerned, the respective
but distinctive God-given roles for men and women are unaffected by contemporary
practice. Efforts to apply political correctness to
biblical roles are misguided. Consider the following passages respecting
the relationship between the roles of men and women in the home and Christianity.
“In like manner also, that women adorn themselves
in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair,
or gold, or pearls, or costly array; But (which becometh women professing
godliness) with good works. Let the woman learn in silence with all
subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority
over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then
Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was
in the transgression. Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing,
if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety” (1 Timothy
2:9-15).
“But I would have you know, that the head of every man
is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ
is God. . . . Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman
for the man” (1 Corinthians 11:3, 9).
“Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto
the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ
is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore
as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own
husbands in every thing” (Ephesians 5:22-24).
“Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands;
that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by
the conversation of the wives; . . . For after this manner in the old time
the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection
unto their own husbands: Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him
lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid
with any amazement” (1 Peter 3:1, 5-6).
Second, your assertion that “you have a right to your
interpretation of the scripture” is biblically inaccurate. Instead,
Scripture reads:
“Knowing this first, that no prophecy of the
scripture is of any private interpretation. For the prophecy came
not in old time by the will of man: but holy men of God spake as they were
moved by the Holy Ghost” (2 Peter 1:20-21).
The biblical principle contained in the above quotation speaks
to the divine origin of Scripture and that mortals are obliged to infer
what God precisely states or implies in Scripture. Therefore, none
of us “have a right to your interpretation of the scripture.” Personal
opinions or preferences do not set aside anything that God has specified
in Scripture.
Third, it is a noble goal as you state: “I have
the highest regard for God and his Word and believe it and will live by
it.” It is impossible, though, to exhibit “the highest regard for
God and his Word” while living in open rebellion to it. For instance,
your statement “But, I believe in the mutual submission of all people men
and women alike” conflicts with the passages above regarding the submissive
role of women to men in the home and Christianity.
Fourth, the biblically submissive role of women to men
in the home and the church does not grant men the right to abuse their
wives.
“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also
loved the church, and gave himself for it; . . . So ought men to love their
wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth
it, even as the Lord the church” (Ephesians 5:25, 28-29).
The “heavy hand of male oppression” that you cite does not
justify negation of directives from God regarding the respective but differing
roles of men and women.
Fifth, the “freedom in Christ” that you claim for yourself
must correspond to the same granted by God respecting the roles of men
and women. Biblically, the equality between men and women pertains
to redemption as indicated by the following passage.
“For ye are all the children of God by faith
in Christ Jesus. For as many of you as have been baptized into Christ
have put on Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither
bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in
Christ Jesus” (Galatians 3:26-28).
Otherwise, the differing roles of men and women remain constant.
Despite political correctness in modern society, perhaps
nothing better illustrates the unchanging roles for men and women as God
designed them than the immutable fact that the female of our species still
must birth our offspring. The apostle Paul alluded to this role in
1 Timothy 2:15, “Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if
they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.” The
“bondage” you decry is not the workings of feeble humanity but the device
of Almighty God.
Sixth, your signature (i.e., “Chaplain Bev Weddle”) indicates
the extent to which you advocate movement from roles assigned by God to
women in the church to roles designated by God for men in the church.
Except in cases where women address women and children or in instances
in which (such as a Bible study) where women participate with men but do
not subordinate the class to them, the New Testament prohibits women from
being preachers. “But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp
authority over the man, but to be in silence” (1 Timothy 2:12).
“Let your women keep silence in the churches:
for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be
under obedience, as also saith the law. And if they will learn any
thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women
to speak in the church” (1 Corinthians 14:34-35).
You write: “There are some like me out here who do
have the highest regard for God and his word yet do disagree with you.”
From the biblical evidence submitted above, I propose that your disagreement
is not with me, but with God himself. Doubtless we can see the futility
of arguing with God. Please do not disparage any mailman who faithfully
delivers a message from God in heaven. Please defer any displeasure
with such messages to the mailer -- God.
“Am I therefore become your enemy, because I
tell you the truth?” (Galatians 4:16).
“For this cause also thank we God without ceasing, because,
when ye received the word of God which ye heard of us, ye received it not
as the word of men, but as it is in truth, the word of God, which effectually
worketh also in you that believe” (1 Thessalonians 2:13).
Are Women Scripturally
Prohibited From Uttering
A Word in Bible Classes?
This could develop into a very serious issue
here if not resolved successfully. . . . We have a brother in a congregation
planning to write a book advancing the proposition that women are to remain
absolutely silent in the worship service. He believes the Scriptures
forbid a woman from making comments or answering questions in a Bible class
even when under the authority of a man teaching that class. . . . There
are some others with a similar stance. These brethren want to see
some hard core evidence that they are wrong before they will change. ~
Richmond, VA
Presumably the brethren whose proposition is represented
above do not prohibit women from singing in the worship assembly.
If I understand correctly, the doctrine being advanced is that since
women are biblically required to be silent in the worship assembly (except
for singing), the same restriction regarding silence applies equally to
women in the Bible classes typically conducted in our church buildings.
First, as I indicated in the preceding paragraph, the
question at hand involves a doctrine (teaching) which brethren desire
to enjoin on other Christians. The task at hand is to ascertain whether
this is a biblical doctrine. I submit, and propose to demonstrate
below, that it is not!
Second, the doctrine being advanced in the question above
results from a fundamental misunderstanding of the distinction between
a worship assembly and studying the Bible outside the worship assembly.
Once it is clearly established that the Bible class and the worship assembly
are not the same, it can be easily seen that 1 Corinthians 14:34 does not
apply to a Bible study.
First Corinthians 14:35 gives a sister the authority to
speak regarding religious matters outside the worship assembly; it does
not address a particular place or location (e.g., church building).
The fact that often the church assembled for worship in a home (Romans
16:5; 1 Corinthians 16:19; Philemon 2) clearly shows the distinction in
1 Corinthians 14:34-35 between the event (worship assembly) versus
the place. The whole church does not come together ordinarily for
Bible study; we have separate classes. There are a number of other
circumstances, too, for which the membership of a congregation might come
together without it being a worship assembly (e.g., fellowship meal, wedding,
funeral, ball game, etc.). Therefore, a Bible study or class is
not identical to a worship assembly and the 1 Corinthians 14:34-35
restrictions do not apply to a Bible study.
Additional information provided with the question above
also indicates a mishandling of relevant passages, including 1 Timothy
2:11-12; 1 Corinthians 14:34-35 and Acts 18:24-26. Please note some
legitimate observations regarding these verses.
In 1 Timothy 2:11-12, God
by inspiration caused the apostle Paul to write concerning the role of
women in the church and in the home. The role of females is distinguished
from the males by references to their subjection to males and the prohibition
of females teaching over males with the inherent authority with which men
teach (verses 8-12). The subordination of males to females in teaching
religious matters is prohibited. Circumstances under which women
may teach are not addressed in this passage. We must turn elsewhere
to learn under what circumstances women may teach.
In 1 Corinthians 14:34, women
in the assembly of the church are forbidden to speak in tongues (languages),
pray aloud, lead the congregation in singing and publicly teach. The same
context prohibits more than one male to speak aloud at the same time (vss.
27, 31). If the message of a male was not intelligible to the assembly
(because they did not know the language of the speaker), he too was to
be silent (vs. 28). Additionally, not every male member is a public speaker
(evident from observation).
“Silence” is qualified by various passages respecting
the circumstances of the occasion. For men, when one speaker ceased,
he who was required to be silent before was then permitted to speak (vs.
31). The silence enjoined on women in 1 Corinthians 14:34-35 pertains
to the worship assemblies, which is what the word for “churches” in that
context means. The silence enjoined on women (and men) in Romans
14 pertained to the teaching, etc. by a single male Christian, to whom
all other persons in the audience were to be subordinate for the duration
of his message. “Singing” is an exception to “silence” in 1 Corinthians
14 as it applies to assemblies that includes not only women but men who
otherwise were to be silent. The participation of women in
our Bible classes wherein they ask questions, make comments or read Scripture
is not governed by Romans 14:34-35 which applies to worship assemblies.
The participation of women in our Bible classes is governed by 1 Timothy
2:8-15 and Acts 18:26.
Acts 18:26 shows that women
can speak in a Bible study in which men are present. Then, 1 Timothy 2:8-15
would apply, in part, to the same type of study, prohibiting the woman
from assuming a role to which other participants were to be subordinate
(like a teacher in one of our Bible classes). Aquila and Priscilla
both taught Apollos. The further question, however, is in what capacity
did they (and especially Priscilla) teach Apollos, and what was the relationship
of Apollos during that teaching to Aquila and Priscilla? The teaching
restrictions imposed by 1 Corinthians 14:34 on women do not apply in Acts
18:26 because Acts 18:26 is not an assembly. However, 1 Timothy 2:11-12
does apply, but evidently was not violated in Acts 18:26 because neither
Aquila nor Apollos were subordinate to Priscilla. Priscilla did not
assume a posture of authority over either her husband or the preacher.
First Timothy 2:8-15 can be violated by a woman at home,
at work, in a restaurant, in a classroom at the church building on Sunday,
in a college classroom or anywhere else that a woman teaches religious
matters under circumstances where the male participants are subordinate
to her. Likewise, a woman teaching at home, at work, in a restaurant,
in a classroom at the church building on Sunday, in a college classroom
or anywhere else can and does occur often without violation of 1 Timothy
2:8-15 when the male participants ARE NOT subordinate to her.
Women in our Bible classes in which men are present teach (under circumstances
in which males are not subordinate to them) when they ask questions, make
comments or read Scripture. Those women and men who comprise
such a class are subordinate to the male teacher of the class.
Aside from the presence of a class teacher, the relationship
that women in one of our typical Bible classes sustain to other male classmates
(and female classmates) is similar to the relationship that Priscilla in
Acts 18:26 sustained to her husband and Apollos. In one of our typical
Sunday morning or Wednesday evening Bible classes, all class members are
subordinate to the class teacher. However, the class members are
not subordinate to each other regarding the topic of teaching. Neither
the women nor the men are subordinated to the other in that teaching environment,
excepting the class teacher to whom both male and female class members
are subordinate.
It is an overstatement and an assumption of facts not
in evidence, as proponents of this doctrine argue, to presume that Apollos
was not a Christian. If Apollos submitted to the baptism of John
prior to the replacement of that baptism with the baptism of the Great
Commission, his spiritual condition differed not at all from that of the
apostles in Acts Two, the 120 disciples, the 500 disciples of 1 Corinthians
15 or the church to which the 3,000 in Acts Two were added (Acts 2:47).
There is neither textual evidence nor biblical principle whereby it could
be successfully argued that the apostles, for instance, were required to
be baptized anew in the baptism of the Great Commission in Acts Two.
There would have been no more requirement for the disciples baptized under
John’s baptism (prior to the cross and Pentecost) to be re-baptized in
the Great Commission baptism than for anyone who lived under Patriarchy
or Judaism (God-authored religions) to be re-baptized to validate their
compliance with the laws of God under which they lived. As surely
as the blood of the cross extended backward to the faithful under Patriarchy
and Judaism (Hebrews 9:14-15; 10:14), the blood of Jesus covered disciples
who submitted to John’s baptism prior to the cross.
Occasions When Women Teach
There are several different circumstances under which according
to the New Testament that a female Christian may and even must teach.
(1) Christian women may teach other women (Titus 2:3-4). (2) Christian
women may teach children (2 Timothy 1:5). (3) Christian women may
teach men under circumstances in which male Christians are not subordinate
to them (Acts 18:26; 2 Timothy 2:11-12). (4) Christian women teach
men and women through the singing of religious songs in the worship assembly
(Colossians 3:16). (5) Women teach when they make their good confession
of Christ preceding baptism (Acts 8:37; Romans 10:9-10). In each
of these instances, a Christian woman teaches but is not in conflict with
either Romans 14:34 or 1 Timothy 2:8-15.
Conclusion
Women teach men without violating Scripture when they teach
through singing (Col. 3:16) and under circumstances where men are not subordinate
to them (outside the worship assembly), such as ‘around the kitchen table’(or
any informal setting) or in classes (with or without a class teacher) where
men are present and sisters read Scripture, ask questions or make comments.
The brother who denies that a sister can teach a Christian presumes too
much!
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