Marital Intimacy in the Garden?

Someone passed on a question posed to him for which he did not have the answer, essentially asking, “Did Adam and Eve enjoy marital intimacy while still in the Garden of Eden? Is there a Bible answer for this question?” If there is a biblical answer for this question, it lies in Genesis 1:28; 2:24, Matthew 19:5, 1 Corinthians 6:16 and Ephesians 5:31. One of two explanations that Adam Clarke offers for the phrase “And they shall be one flesh” (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:5) is that it refers to procreation. He further notes that by the creation of Eve and God’s presentation of her to Adam, God expressed a preference for matrimony, which he established in the Garden, rather than for celibacy. If God established the institution of marriage in the Garden of Eden as we commonly avow, then the marital intimacy enjoined by 1 Corinthians 7:3 incurs as well. Robertson states what may be the obvious inclusion of marital intimacy respecting each of the “one flesh” passages. Commenting on 1 Corinthians 6:16, he writes, “The words, quoted from Gen 2:24 describing the sexual union of husband and wife, are also quoted and explained by Jesus in Matt 19:5f…” In addition, the “leaving and cleaving” pertaining to marriage occurs in the first part of Genesis 2:24, despite neither Adam nor Eve as the first couple had parents. It appears clear that God instituted marriage in the Garden of Eden with all that the rest of the Scriptures include therein, including …

Is It Irreverent to Refer to God as “Daddy”?

Brother Rushmore, We recently had a visitor who led singing and while commenting on a song about prayer he said we should be thankful to be able to call God daddy. Many in the congregation were very offended by this. I know the elders and the preacher spoke to him about it and the preacher in a very kind way mentioned how we should address God as Father and not by our own terminology. Another member sought to defend the use of daddy by referring to Abba as meaning da da. I looked the word abba up in several lexicons and commentaries and to the last one they all basically said the word in the N.T. means Father. Can you shed some light on this seemingly increasing practice of referring to God as daddy, it seems very irreverent to me yet I certainly want to support my position biblically. Thank you, Roy Williams There are three passages in which the words “Abba Father” appear (Mark 14:36; Romans 8:15; Galatians 4:6). Strong’s defines “Abba” as Aramaic for “father.” Easton’s Bible Dictionary says of “Abba”: This Syriac or Chaldee word is found three times in the New Testament (Mark 14:36; Rom. 8:15; Gal. 4:6), and in each case is followed by its Greek equivalent, which is translated “father.” It is a term expressing warm affection and filial confidence. It has no perfect equivalent in our language. It has passed into European languages as an ecclesiastical term, “abbot.” The New Bible Dictionary adds, “It appears that the double phrase …

Does God Communicate with People Today Through Dreams?

Dear Louis, First, I would like to say, thanks for this website. It has helped me with life and some questions. I have two questions. First one, Can we receive the directions from God through dreams? Second one, What are some ways God may guide us or give us reassurance when we are thrust into unexpected circumstances? Thanks again, Mrs. Angela Ellis Thank you for your kind words respecting our efforts with Gospel Gazette Online. Dreams from God to mortals were something that existed within the timeframe of miraculous manifestations, in the Old Testament and in the first century while the New Testament was being written (Genesis 31:10; Numbers 12:6; Joel 2:28; Matthew 1:20; 2:12-13, 19, 22; Acts 2:17). One means by which God communicated new revelation to his prophets was through dreams; “The prophet that hath a dream, let him tell a dream; and he that hath my word, let him speak my word faithfully…” (Jeremiah 23:28). The purpose of miracles was to validate both new revelation from God and the messenger presenting such a message (Mark 16:20). Miracles performed by Jesus of Nazareth verified that he is the Christ (John 20:30-31). Miracles performed by the apostles of Christ and others in the first century who were endowed with miraculous powers confirmed the Word of God or Gospel of Jesus Christ (the New Testament) (Hebrews 2:3-4). The apostle Paul taught Christians at Corinth and also at Ephesus that whenever miracles had validated all new revelation that miracles would cease (1 …

What Do You Mean, “God Can’t Do Absolutely Everything?”

Atheists have tried for years to prove that God does not exist. This is impossible, however, because God does exist, and the nature of the atheist’s position is self-defeating. An atheist makes the claim, “I know God does not exist.” This is what is called a universal negative. That means, that in order to know what they claim, they must have all of the evidence. Imagine the following illustration: There are two men in the woods. One man says to the other, “I know that there is not even one deer in these woods, nor has there ever been.” The other man says, “I know that there is, at least, one deer that exists, or has existed in these woods.” The first man would have to know or do a couple of things that would be impossible for him to know or do. 1) He would have to be able to see the whole area that he was considering. 2) He would have to know that there had never been a deer in that area. The man that said that he knew there was at least one deer that exists, or had existed, in the same wooded area, would have much less to prove. He would simply have to provide one deer track, some deer hide, rub marks from a buck, deer bones or even some droppings. If this man provided any one of these, he could uphold his side of the case. The first man is holding a position similar to …

Always Under Oath

The word play of the media and the political world is ever intriguing. Much ado was made when the National Security Advisor of the present administration agreed and was allowed to testify under oath and publicly before the 9/11 Commission. Inherent in all the attention given this landmark case was the implication that there was much more to be expected from the qualifications “under oath” and “publicly.” Private testimony without an oath, it was inferred, could not be trusted. Then, other officials testified privately and without an oath. The reports led listeners to believe there was something lesser and even sinister about such testimony. Without an oath, would people really tell the truth? Without being in public, would they be more apt to hedge on the full story? Perhaps. But the point of this article is neither to question the motives of either the media or the politicians, nor accuse anyone on either side of those volatile issues of any malice or perjury. Rather, the whole affair calls to mind a very relevant biblical principle. Christians, one should observe, should always be considered under oath. Whether or not a verbalized oath is taken, or a hand is placed on a Bible or a “so help me God” is uttered, Christians ought to be people who tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Consider the following biblical teachings: Jesus sharply rebuked the Pharisees for regarding some oaths as more binding than others (Matthew 23:16-22). Jesus also taught that such swearing should …

Jesus’ Life, One of Service: How Do Our Lives Compare?

Scriptures to Study: Matthew 5-10; Matthew 20:20-28; Matthew 25:31-40; Mark 1-9; Luke 17:1-10; John 21:25; Romans 12; Galatians 5: 9-10. “And there are also many other things that Jesus did, which if they were written one by one, I suppose that even the world itself could not contain the books that would be written. Amen” (John 21:25). This Scripture perhaps more than any other single Scripture tells us what an exemplary servant Jesus was! This verse should settle in our minds once and for all any whining, complaining or resenting we may have in our service to others. Jesus said, “So likewise you, when you have done all those things which you are commanded, say, ‘We are unprofitable servants. We have done what was our duty to do’” (Luke 17:10). One of the most unique qualities of our Master was he never asked anybody to do anything he was not willing to do himself — the epitome of a true leader. “Though He was a Son, He learned obedience by the things which He suffered” (Hebrews 5:8). Jesus spent his entire earthly life demonstrating what it meant to be a servant. He said, “…but whoever desires to become great among you, let him be your servant, and whoever desires to be first among you, let him be your slave; just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many” (Matthew 20:26-28). The greatest in God’s kingdom are called …

Worship Every Day and on Sunday

Sometime, in every God-given day, David’s words, now 3000 years old, never get out of date: “Come! Let us worship and bow down. Let us kneel before Yahweh our Maker” (Psalm 95:6). “Yahweh” is the best pronunciation of God’s Hebrew name, YHWH. It is miscalled “Jehovah” in several translations, as in Psalm 83:18: “whose name alone is Jehovah.” Of the four letters, YHWH, God had told Moses, “This is my name forever, and this is my memorial to all generations” (Exodus 3:15). What a being! Only he could say, “I AM THAT I AM” (Exodus 3:14): “I am the A and the Z, the originator and completer, . . . who is, who was, and who is coming, the Almighty” (Revelation 1:8), “from everlasting to everlasting” (Psalm 90:2). Because the Father and the Son “are one” (John 10:30), Jesus could say, “before Abraham was born [two thousand years ago], I am” (John 8:58). Daily worship by a Christian, in his or her room, or in a family gathering, involves the sacred Three. Jesus is involved because he is listening, for “we have an intercessor with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous one” (1 John 2:1). Moreover, the Holy Spirit also is listening and speaks up for us: Likewise, the Spirit helps our praying, because we do not know how to pray as we ought. In regard to our groanings, too deep for words, the Spirit himself intercedes for us. The Searcher of hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, who, …

Moral Issues Facing the Church

Can it be said with any degree of certainty that anything is necessarily wrong? Have black and white really dissolved into the murky world gray? Are there no absolutes any more, except, of course, that there are no absolutes? A few years ago I would not have considered such questions as worthy of serious discussion. Right and wrong were clearly differentiated, and most folks understood the difference. Abortion was unthinkable, divorce unacceptable and unwed pregnancy a disgrace. Now these are common occurrences in many families. And, there seems to be no shame, no sense of failure, no stigma attached. Why is the realm of ethics and morality shrouded in a dense fog? Is there nothing that we can point to as always right or always wrong? The “enlightened” answer is “No!” Is that your approach to this subject? Are you among the growing number calling for tolerance? Is your voice among those who plead for acceptance? Do you sit in judgment of those whom you condemn for judging? Are you among that number whose knowledge of the words of Jesus is limited to his statement, “Thou shalt not judge”? If you find yourself in this crowd, answer these questions. Is it ever right to abuse a child? Is child pornography ever morally acceptable? Is it ever wrong to treat people the way you want to be treated?  And, how do you know? The realm of right and wrong is not nearly as murky as we are led to believe. Whether …

Abomination of the Lord

Recently a young man read the text for the morning’s lesson from Ephesians 6. He read verse 4 this way, “And ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but nurture them in the chastening and abomination of the Lord.” I do not know whether anyone else noticed the difference in the word “admonition” which Paul used, and “abomination” which the young man used, but the thought occurred to me that many parents are bringing up their children in abomination of the Lord. There are at least nine verses in the Bible that specifically use the expression “abomination unto the Lord,” but the number that are an abomination to him is too great to list here. Deuteronomy 25 mentions several things that were unlawful, then verse 16 says, “All that do unrighteously, are an abomination unto Jehovah thy God.” That covers every deliberate sin. God mentions specific things in Proverbs 6:16-19: “There are six things which Jehovah hateth; yea, seven which are an abomination unto him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood; a heart that deviseth wicked purposes, feet that are swift in running to mischief, a false witness that uttereth lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren.” When a parent lives or speaks in such a way that his children feel that they are superior to others, he is teaching them in the abomination of the Lord. When a child hears his parents tell a lie about anything, they are teaching what is …

The Nature of Christ’s Kingdom

One of the most interesting conversations recorded in the Bible took place between the Roman procurator Pontius Pilate and our Lord Jesus Christ on the day he was betrayed into the hands of sinners. The conversation is recorded in John 18:33-38, which reads as follows: Then Pilate entered the Praetorium again, called Jesus, and said to Him, Are You the King of the Jews? Jesus answered him, Are you speaking for yourself about this, or did others tell you this concerning Me? Pilate answered, Am I a Jew? Your own nation and the chief priests have delivered You to me. What have You done? Jesus answered, My kingdom is not of this world. If My kingdom were of this world, My servants would fight, so that I should not be delivered to the Jews; but now My kingdom is not from here. Pilate therefore said to Him, Are You a king then? Jesus answered, You say rightly that I am a king. For this cause I was born, and for this cause I have come into the world, that I should bear witness to the truth. Everyone who is of the truth hears My voice. Pilate said to Him, What is truth? And when he had said this, he went out again to the Jews, and said to them, I find no fault in Him at all. (NKJV) One of the reasons this conversation is so interesting, in addition to the fact that Pilate found no fault in our Lord, …

Trying to Define Terms Without God

Some say that there is no God. This is not a new fad or philosophy. More than three thousand years ago David wrote: “The fool has said in his heart, ‘There is no God.’ They are corrupt, They have done abominable works, There is none who does good’” (Psalm 14:1). It should be noted that the passage does not say,”Because there is no evidence available, some people fail to believe in God.” The fool of the passage knows the evidence. He may even have examined that evidence and realized that all reasoning and logic show such evidence to be true. Surely, like the Psalmist, he could see and say, “The heavens declare the glory of God; And the firmament shows His handiwork. Day unto day utters speech, And night unto night reveals knowledge. There is no speech nor language where their voice is not heard” (Psalm 19:1-3). The fool, however, is like those described in the first chapter of the book of Romans. Here we are told: For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who suppress the truth in unrighteousness, because what may be known of God is manifest in them, for God has shown it to them. For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse, because, although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God, …

The Prayer of Jabez

The recent best selling book, The Prayer of Jabez, written by Bruce Wilkinson, was the “surprise religious book” of the year 2000. It has sold over seven million copies. Every book writer would like to boast of such success. That success has spawned a marketing phenomenon that includes books for kids and teens, T-shirts, coffee mugs, a desk calendar, a study Bible, a devotional guide, a website and a reminder coin — all in the name of Jabez. This book, or any of its related merchandise, might very well be under your Christmas tree this year (given by some well-meaning friend or relative). I realize that this book enjoys some popularity among our brethren. I see no problem with that as long as the reader is able to see past the hype surrounding the book, as well as the pseudo-promises and the false teachings of the author so as to derive some benefit from the commentary provided. The apostle John wrote, “Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world” (1 John 4:1). The trouble is that the largest portion of the reading public is not so discerning. All that the Bible tells us about Jabez is found in 1 Chronicles 4:9-10, which reads, “And Jabez was more honourable than his brethren: and his mother called his name Jabez, saying Because I bare him with sorrow. And Jabez called on the God of Israel, saying, Oh …

Right in Whose Sight?

Most people want to be right, to the fullest extent of their ability, in the sight of all observers. However, there are some depraved souls who could not care less how they appear in the sight of either God or man, and they conduct themselves solely by their own selfish whims and notions. When they are reminded of being out of harmony with God’s perfect moral and spiritual standards (or even man’s imperfect standards), their response often is: “I don’t care what anyone thinks or says” or “It’s none of your business” or “It’s my life to live and I will live it as I please.” This latter concept is often heard these days to the sad dismay of parents from their children, and it generates a double grief in godly parents: grief because of the sin of rebellion, and grief when that rebellion ultimately results in fruits that hurt and sorrow for their children. Sadly, the above expressed attitudes are becoming more and more prevalent in our society as a whole, and it is spilling over into the precious body of Christ, the church for which Christ died. “That He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish” (Ephesians 5:26-27). We would expect an infidel, who is regulated only by humanistic values, to have an “I don’t …

The New Year: A Good Time for Reflection and Optimism

[First Century Christian 22.12 (2000): 11.] Mistakes and failures of the past should not be allowed to hinder and rule in regard to the present and the future. Paul’s admonition needs to be applied in such cases. “But one thing I do, forgetting the things which are behind, and stretching forward to the things before, I press on toward the goal unto the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:13-14). However, this does not mean that we cannot learn from our mistakes and failures and profit from them. Righteousness of God is a learned behavior, just as sin is; therefore, we must unlearn sin and learn righteousness. To be righteous, we must study God’s will and learn to do right (James 1:21-22). Righteousness is turning away from sin to do right; it involves repentance. There is a commendable saying, “I’ll not make that same mistake again!” Such a statement expresses a bold and courageous determination to do better, but we must not forget that the devil can also be incited by it to attempt to bring us to an even greater downfall. When we clean our houses (souls), we must also fill them with righteousness (Luke 11:24-26). “Then goeth he, and taketh to him seven other spirits more evil than himself; and they enter in and dwell there: and the last state of that man becometh worse than the first.” We are righteous only as we learn and put into practice right doing, and our heavenly …

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They Testify of Me

The Jewish leaders did not want to believe Jesus. They also did not want the people to believe in him. They constantly followed him around and made trouble for him. They at times accused him of wrongdoing. They tried asking him difficult questions to make him look uneducated. But nothing they did produced the result they wanted. In John 5:39-40, we read, “Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me. And ye will not come to me, that ye might have life.” Jesus is telling the Jewish leaders that all they have to do is search the Scriptures. The Old Testament Scriptures have many prophecies regarding the Christ. Jesus is telling them that if they will simply look at his life and look at the Scriptures, they will see that he is indeed the Messiah. The Jewish leaders believed that eternal life came from the Scriptures. They were partially correct. Eternal life comes to those who obey the Scriptures. The Jewish leaders had come to the point that they believed just possessing the Scriptures was enough. But Jesus is saying that they must study them and obey them. Jesus was prophesied to come. And the Jews were commanded to listen to the Messiah when he came into the world. The Jewish leaders were refusing to do that. Keep reading and studying your Bible. Learn all you can from it. Then obey the commandments of God. And if any …

The Trees and the Bramble

The son of Gideon, Abimelech, was not a good man. He decided that he wanted to rule Israel. He desired to be honored like his father had been. But Abimelech did not do the things his father had done to be worthy of praise. God was not with Abimelech. His father had never been king but Abimelech wanted to be a king. Abimelech killed all but one of his brothers (he had at least 70 brothers). He went to his relatives and made a pact with them. They decided to support Abimelech in his desire. The brother who was alive went to these relatives and told them a fable about a group of trees who wanted a king. You can read this fable in Judges 9:7-21. The trees went to an olive tree, which turned down their offer. They went to a fig tree, which turned down their offer. They went to a vine and it turned down their offer. Finally they go to a bramble and the bramble agrees to be the king over the trees. How silly that trees would accept a bramble as king over them. The trees are big and strong and beautiful. The bramble is small and ugly. Yet in the fable, the bramble has the audacity to say it will give the trees shade. This fable was intended to tell Abimelech and his relatives that the pact they have made is silly and ridiculous. Israel has a king — God. Israel is a chosen …

Making an End to Sins

In the 23rd chapter of Matthew, we read the severest denunciation of the scribes and Pharisees that can be read in any literature in the world. This castigation was the fulfillment of prophecy because the prophets had foretold how the Son of God would be maligned and abused by the leaders of the Jewish people. In this instance, our Lord was not just lashing out in human anger against those who were about to crucify him; on the contrary, because he knew his days were numbered and that the earthly phase of his redemptive work was about to end, he was making a “last ditch” effort to dissuade the Jews from the path they had determined to take. Near the end of his sermon to them, he made two statements that catapult our minds back to Daniel 9:24. In this passage Daniel said, “Seventy weeks are determined For your people and for your holy city, To finish the transgression, To make an end of sins, To make reconciliation for iniquity, To bring in everlasting righteousness, To seal up vision and prophecy, And to anoint the Most Holy.” The two phrases to which we give attention are: (1) “to finish the transgression,” meaning the ultimate transgression of the will of God that was to be committed in the crucifixion of his Son; and (2) “to make an end to sins,” meaning that when Jesus was crucified upon the cross the act that would bring about the forgiveness, or end, of sins for millions of …

Playgrounds, Programs and Preaching

Most of us have been there at one point or another–looking for somewhere to eat on a busy street. It never fails, whenever adults are really craving something good, one of those fast food restaurants with a playground appears out of nowhere. With neon lights and giant slides beckoning, it immediately captures the attention of anyone under the age of twelve. Suddenly the backseat becomes a chorus of little voices begging to go to the restaurant with the playground. In fact, most children choose their favorite restaurant not for the food, but rather the presence and size of the playground and the type of toy that comes in the value meal. History will record that twenty-five years ago playgrounds in restaurants were almost as scarce as dinosaurs. Today, you can find two or three within the same city block. Kids love it because they get to play. Parents dread it because the food is not very healthy and is often less than appetizing (and more than a few of us have had to bend and snake our way up through the tubes in order to rescue a crying child who made it to the top, but was to scared to come down!). But the playgrounds work! They entice children (and their hesitant parents) by the millions. In fact, the majority of fast-food restaurants under construction today possess these colossal recreational areas. Interestingly, we find that this concept of attracting larger numbers through entertainment did not stop with fast-food restaurants. Churches …

I Believe in Heaven Because…

We read of Oz, Never-Land, the Hundred-Acre Woods and other fictitious places in our fairy tales. We know, or should know, that these places are imaginary locations created to entertain our children. Unfortunately, most of the world adds heaven to the list of fairy tale lands. Every Bible student should know that heaven is, in fact, a true, real, actual place. How do we know heaven exists? We know heaven exists based on faith. A divine definition of faith can be found in Hebrews 11:1, “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” According to Strong’s, the Greek word for substance in the passage cited above means “a setting under.” Substance is a means of support, or a foundation. Thayer’s defines evidence as “a proof.” With these definitions in mind, the passage could read, “Faith is the foundation of things hoped for, the proof of things not seen.” First Thessalonians 5:21 commands us to “prove all things.” The Greek word for prove, according to Strong’s, means “to test.” The need to test something demands there be evidence used as a basis. Faith, by nature, is based on evidence. Faith is based on evidence, but where do we get this evidence? Romans 10:17 reads, “So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.” We have the Word of God recorded for our study in what we call the Bible. Second Timothy 3:16 tells us, “All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness.” …

He Looks Like He Would Be a Good Daddy!

Following the Preachers and Elders Meeting on the second Monday in November, Bonnie and I did a little shopping at Dollar Tree. A woman with two small children checked out ahead of us at the cashier. Upon completing our purchases, we also exited the store, whereupon we noticed the mother and her two children standing on the sidewalk in front. One of the little, blond-headed youngsters had attempted to follow the Pepsi Cola truck driver to the cab of the truck and leave with him. We arrived in time to hear the mother call the child back and say, “You can’t go with him.” The boy spontaneously responded, “But he looks like he would be a good daddy!” Our hearts melted, and (though there are other possible scenarios) we were painfully reminded of the moral cesspool enveloping American society (and the world). The collateral damage of widespread immorality in our nation is the horrific toll exacted upon innocent children. Unfortunately, such children typically grow to maturity and perpetuate the cycle of ungodliness and immorality. That little boy knew (perhaps instinctively) that there was something missing in his family life. Doubtless he loved his mother as all small children do, but he sensed that he needed a man in his life “Daddy!” God instituted the human family with a husband and a wife who became a father and a mother (Genesis 2:18, 22; 4:1-2). Irrespective of whether they realize it, fathers have a God-appointed, important role in the rearing of children (Ephesians 6:4). …